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Radicalism in Youth Ministry

Barefoot Training - Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Jon Wasson takes aim at the ideal of radicalism in youth ministry in his recent article for Immerse Journal, “Bonhoeffer’s Discipleship: Reframing the Language of Radicalism in Adolescent Contexts.” Jon, via Bonhoeffer, is concerned with the rhetoric of radicalism and the ideology of radicalism in youth ministry because it shifts the orientation of discipleship away from Christ. I value Jon’s contribution to the theological practice of youth ministry and took it up in my own reflections and engagement with youth.

Personal Reflections

My first impression upon reading Jon’s article was doubt. I wondered if Jon just created a straw man here. The reason for such a reaction was that I haven’t knowingly been part of a youth ministry that used the explicit language of radical as Jon presented. So I started searching for how pervasive this rhetoric is in the youth ministry blogosphere and on church websites. After about 30 minutes of searching, I was sold on Jon’s characterization.

Upon further reflection, I believe I too was exposed to a certain ideology by my faith community. My rural, conservative and fundamentalist introduction into the body of Christ exposed me to a super-Christian ideology that reflects some of the characteristics of Jon’s radicalism.

I was 17 and listening to a teenage girl talk about her extreme act of trusting God. In a small, country church, she explained how she hadn’t thought it was possible for God to provide the money for her to go to Guatemala. She shared stories of tribal-like people groups being converted to faith in Jesus by simple Sunday school lessons. She painted a picture of the impossible situation of giving up a whole summer, spending a lot of weekends in preparation, praying daily for unknown people and finally seeing God transform lives by the power of the proclaimed Word. Having recently been converted to faith in Jesus Christ, her story quickly became my image of being a radical Christian.

That rural community of believers taught me that the point of the Christian life was to move hundreds of miles away from home and make a huge impact in a foreign land for Christ. The entry point into that way of life was short-term missions. If you chose not to go on a short-term mission trip, then you were choosing to live a common Christian life. The role of the common Christian life was to support the super-Christians in other lands through money and prayer. And to ensure that we had effective prayers, we were to rigidly keep the rules of holy living found in our literal reading of the Scriptures and our community’s rules for Christian living.

This type of ideology is what Jon writes against. Jon asserts that “what student ministry has done with its abuse of radical terminology” is to create “an ideal social dream for students instead of calling them to encounter the living Christ.” This critique follows his reading of Bonhoffer’s ideology of Christian brotherhood. And ultimately, the critique is that to set up any “end other than the person of Christ is to create an ideal as an ultimate reality.”

What Jon’s critical theological reading of youth ministry reveals for me is that youth workers both explicitly and implicitly adopt ideologies in order to communicate the gospel in relevant ways. This is nothing new for the church, though. My personal reflection mirrors much of what I found out there in terms of radicalism in youth ministry. The foreign missionary was my community’s image of radical Christianity. It was communicated as a life of total self-sacrifice for God, extreme focus on the gospel in every aspect of life and overflowing with the miraculous, transformative presence of God in the world. For others, it may be radicalism or another ideology that has taken the place of Christ as the ultimate reality.

The radical idea (pun intended) that Jon puts forth is that we marry our idea of radical with a particular concept of ordinary. The ordinary radical in Jon’s proposal is his way of saying a disciple of Jesus Christ.  The true disciple carries the cross each and every day. In other words, Jon wants us to stop modifying Christian and embrace the gospel as a call to death.

From Deconstruction to Construction

So what?

That’s the question I ask in my head when someone deconstructs something. What I’m typically asking myself is, So what am I supposed to do about this? The following are two practical movements following Jon’s critique of radicalism in youth ministry.

Evaluate

Let’s begin exploring the reality of our use of radicalism in youth ministry. The pitfalls Jon points out serve as a great rubric in order to engage in the process of discovery.

1.    Do we make radicalism the end of Christian transformation?

This is a big-picture question, and we have a lot of places in youth ministry where we can subtly paint this picture. In our preaching and teaching times, we can communicate that the ultimate goal of the work of God in our lives is for us to become radical. This typically comes when we illustrate the ideal Christian teen living out radical faith. We don’t always communicate that what we mean by “radical faith” is simply Christian faith.

We also paint the big picture in the art and images in our worship spaces. Specifically, I think of those youth rooms that are plastered with blockbuster movies that communicate the message of radicalism. Comic book movies, the underdog sports icons, the passionate acts of redemption—all communicate that what we are called to is extreme acts of witness and not the ordinary acts of witness in the world.

2.    Do we create positions of power through our use of radicalism in youth ministry?
This point for me is about inside and outside language within the Christian narrative. I first encountered it when a person taught me to distinguish between “real Christians” and “cultural Christians.” What the person meant was well meaning, but what I learned was that some believers are on the inside with Jesus and some are on the outside.

Messed up, right?

This is what a power structure does. It gives one part of the community—radical Christians—the ability to dictate what following Jesus is about to another part of the community—non-radical Christians.

3.    Do we exploit students in our language of radicalism?

We can do this in our personal counseling of youth or in our invitations to make decisions about life and faith with youth. We can make statements that play on adolescents’ developmental and cultural impulse for risk taking. We can pump them up with high-energy activities and games then ask them to make radical commitments of faith.

Discover

Engage students with the whole concept of radical in order to discern if they have received radicalism rather than the gospel of Jesus.

Click here to download a lesson guide to explore radicalism with your students.

Youth workers need to explore the critiques that Jon’s article proposes. This is not to assert that Jon has entirely figured out the issue of radicalism but rather to suggest that we need to discern whether we are staying faithful to Jesus in our life together. It is in exploring the economy of our life with youth that I hope will reveal ways we can grow in our faithfulness to Jesus Christ.

By Paul Sheneman

Everyday Theology in Youth Ministry

Barefoot Training - Thursday, March 17, 2011
Ahh yes, theology. It’s the eight-letter word good Christians are taught not to use. Sure, some of those questionable people talk about it in the dark corners of the foyer. And there is the occasional legalistic guy who harps on it in small group. But every true Christian knows that what we need is less talk about God and more relationship with God, and I…half-heartedly agree.

In school, I was taught to distinguish between stated theology and grassroots theology. Stated theology is what is in the books, on the websites, and spoken about in polished lectures.  Grassroots theology—or, what I like to refer to as everyday theology—is what actually gets lived out, prayed, and talked about. Both are important in the church, but as a youth worker, my main concern is to promote and guide everyday theology.

One way I attempt to promote everyday theology in youth ministry is to ask simple theological questions. Just recently, I asked a small group of high school students, “What does it mean to share God with a friend (i.e., evangelism)? Don’t we believe God is everywhere and so God is already in your friend’s life (i.e., omnipresence)?” We had some conversation about those questions, and they agreed that sharing God happens when we help people become aware that the God of Scripture is present in their lives.

I asked them, “What difference has knowing that God is present in your life meant?” One teen told a story of how knowing that a powerful God is looking out for him is a comforting thought and makes him happy. Another teen told a story of how God has given him purpose to live life. He acknowledged that living for selfish things like money and fame didn’t make sense to him. Still another shared a story about how she feels free, knowing Jesus forgave her. She went on to tell us how that freedom allows her to love her friends.

Then I said, “This is the gospel of God’s presence that you have to share with your friends. The Bible might say a lot more then what you just shared tonight, but none of that has the significance that your story of God has for your friends.”

In other words, their stories are their everyday theology of the redemptive work of God. Their stories might not be theologically precise in the halls of the academy, but they are theologically honest.

Everyday theology is the starting point for theological education and spiritual formation. Youth workers need to value and honor everyday theology in order to promote the growth of students in their knowledge and wisdom in the Lord.

Questions to Consider:
What is more important in youth ministry—stated or everyday theology?
How do you teach theology in youth ministry?
Where is your starting point for teaching theology?

By Paul Sheneman

People and Stories

Barefoot Training - Thursday, March 03, 2011
My friend Jason and I did a workshop on A World Unbroken a couple of weeks ago. He shared the following poem:



Then he asked everyone to answer a simple question. “What story comes to mind when you hear this poem?”

One youth pastor shared a story of a teenage boy who was living a life that was like a crumpled-up something but had great potential, like a blossoming dream. So the youth pastor put him in his pocket by sharing his life with the boy and now holds on to the hope that God will transform him. In this brief exercise, the youth pastor revealed to everyone three simple truths about people and stories.

First, when we share a story, it reveals something about ourselves. For the youth pastor, it was his passion to see God work in the lives of youth. It also revealed the youth pastor’s enduring hope in a loving and powerful God.

Second, the exercise revealed that people communicate meaning through stories. The youth pastor shared a story with several facts. Those facts would have no significance to anyone else if he were to list them off in bullet-point fashion. Instead, by telling a story that incorporated those facts, the youth pastor created meaning. He even inspired others to hope in the God who causes our dreams to bloom.

Finally, a story can connect us, both to God and others. The youth pastor connected to the rest of the people in the room who were youth workers, parents, or teenagers because of his story. The words he used to describe the teenage boy and his hopes for him resonated with everyone’s passions and desires for youth.

To share God’s story and our stories together opens teens up to meaningfully connecting with God and others. And those connections can inspire youth to be transformed into Christ followers.

Questions to Consider:
How do you incorporate sharing stories into youth ministry?
What are some other truths about the relationship between people and stories?

By Paul Sheneman

The Journey to Becoming More in Youth Ministry

Barefoot Training - Tuesday, February 22, 2011
“Then a brilliant college professor taught me...that each of us are mini-trinities, we’re three-in-ones—minds, spirits and bodies all wrapped into one being (Mark 12:30; 1 Thessalonians 5:23).”

-Laurin Makohon, “The Journey to Becoming More.” Immerse Journal Jan/Feb 2011 issue.

We are a unity of head, heart, and hands.

This revelation of our humanity led Laurin Makohon on a personal journey to engage the fullness of life that God created us to live. What we catch a glimpse of in Laurin’s story is a picture of what youth ministry and youth’s lives can be.

After reading Laurin’s article, I began to imagine how my students are already experiencing the fullness of the life of faith described in Laurin’s story. They already encounter God through their minds, feelings, and actions because the Holy Spirit is always present in their lives. And I thought, What would it look like if I did a qualitative assessment of my students through this lens?

A qualitative assessment in this instance gleans stories of how teens encounter God through their heads, hearts, and hands in order to discern their awareness of God’s activity and the impact that it has made on their lives of faith. If you have been following the Barefoot Training articles, then you know my definition for faith. With this definition I came up with two questions for each of the three dimensions of our humanity.



I encourage you to ask your students these simple questions in small groups or in casual conversations. It will open up the exploration of the fullness of the lives of faith God has in store for them.

If you are looking to go deeper with your assessment and connect it to spiritual growth, then check out this article, by Mark Maddix.

By Paul Sheneman

Essential Traits of Transformational Youth Ministry 11

Barefoot Training - Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Engaging the Whole Family 4: 

A Way Forward


In this series we have used the works of David Elkind, Diana Garland, and Marjorie Thompson to guide our reflections on discerning the family.  We continue this reflection by turning to the challenges facing the family and their proposals for a way forward for the church to minister to families.

The Challenges
Elkind, a child psychologist, is concerned with the health of children in North America.  He describes three major shifts in the roles of parents, children, adolescents that correspond to the modern to postmodern shift.  Parenting in modernity was focused on intuition and technique in postmodernity.  The view of the child changed from innocence in modernity to competence in postmodernity.  The view of adolescents changed from immature in modernity to sophisticated in postmodernity.  Elkind concludes that these shifts led to an imbalance of stress upon children and adolescents which he calls the “new morbidity” of youth (98-152).

Garland, a Christian social worker, is primarily concerned about the faith of families.  She is informed by Craig Dykstra’s work in faith practices when she engages the particular stories of families.  She finds that the challenges facing the faith practices of families are busy schedules, lack of training of parents, lack of knowledge of Scripture, competing values within a family, and different levels of personal faith in the family (127-198).

Thompson suggests one of the main obstacles to the faith development of families is the church.  She writes, “What I am suggesting is the communal church and the domestic church need to recapture a vision of the Christian family as a sacred community.  This will require an awareness of the ‘sacred’ in the ‘secular,’ of God in the flesh of human life (20-21).”

A Modest Proposal
Elkind, Garland, and Thompson all suggest a way forward for the family and I believe that youth and family pastors can find a generous and faithful way forward in their collective proposals.  In bullet points here are some suggested movements forward....
  • Elkind suggests a concept called the “vital family.”  The vital family values include emotional ties of committed love (a movement beyond intimate love and mutual engagement), authentic parenting (blend of parenting out of intuition and technique), interdependence (blend of autonomy and togetherness) and a balance of unilateral and mutual authority.
  • Elkind suggests a reinvention of adulthood.  This reinvention includes parents appropriately exercising authority and sharing space with children and adolescents.  This space sharing includes the development of safe environments for children to grow in competence and teens to grow in sophistication.
  • Garland and Thompson suggest that the local church is integral in teaching families the practice of faith.  They call for the church to see their role as learning community for families of faith.
  • Garland suggests the informal teaching moments for faith in families are found in the dark moments of death and conflict.

I find hope in these suggestions.  I believe that God can choose the local church in these days to lead families forward into God’s mission.  By God’s grace, the church can practice space sharing with youth in our corporate worship.  In humility, the church has the opportunity to publicly seek Christian ways of resolving the conflict as a way to train families.  We can learn together what it means to seek God in the dark moments of life.  We can practice the values of the vital family through Christian faith practices.  We can provide space for families to learn and serve together.  We can extend the call to all families to enter into God’s saving embrace in Christ as a way forward for their family.

More Resources:
http://www.baylor.edu/social_work/cfcm/

http://practicingourfaith.org/

http://ekklesiaproject.org/

By: Paul Sheneman

Essential Traits of Transformational Youth Ministry 10

Barefoot Training - Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Engaging the Whole Family 3: What is the Family?



The value of defining the family for our contemporary content is that it gives us orientation in our engagement. If we can’t name the thing that we encounter, how can we have a meaningful experience? We have a word for God that has some meaning, and that concept seems a lot more complex than family.  

So tell me, what is the family? I want to know because, for the life of me, I can’t find one definition that does justice to the multiple realities of family that I experience. For example, I’ve seen heads of households be single, biological parents, biological grandparents with single parents, two biological parents, two legal parents with no biological relation, one legal parent with no biological relation, two legal parents who are also the biological uncle and aunt, and the list could go on. And then try to account for sibling relationships, and I almost want to give up on ever finding a definition.

But what if we moved away from a sociological or structural definition? What if we tried a theological definition?

Here is my stab at it:

Familya supportive and formative group of people, connected through a common biological lineage or covenant, who are meant to learn and practice the worship of God through their relationships with God, each other, and the world.

Does that definition sound familiar? I hope so because the definition is derived from a definition of the church. And here is my bias in favor of this definition. I think the church is called to be the family of faith for the world.

I also think the definition helps youth and family ministers imagine that the goal of families is to become “little churches,” in the words of Jonathan Edwards. And the concept of families becoming little churches corresponds to Diana Garland’s sociological research of more than 100 families. Her research revealed faith practices as an essential element of family life. As a complement to that research, Marjorie Thompson’s book argues that spiritual formation naturally happens in families in both positive and negative ways. Therefore, we can conclude that families are going to worship something. It is the role of the church to be the family of faith that invite them into the worship of God.

Questions to Consider:
What is your definition of family?
What do you think about the above definition of family?
What do we do with this definition of family?

By: Paul Sheneman

Essential Traits of Transformational Youth Ministry 9

Barefoot Training - Monday, December 20, 2010

Engaging the Whole Family 2: Nuclear Family


Let’s get this bit o’ info out of the way. The nuclear family is depicted as two parents bonded together in a love-based marriage with biological children. The nuclear family is also referred to as the “domestic family.” Some even refer to the nuclear family as the “traditional family,” as though it has been the longest-enduring family structure in history. And some even hold up the nuclear family as the goal of Christian relationships.

However, the nuclear family is not the longest-enduring family structure, and it is most certainly not the family structure throughout biblical history. In fact, it has only been in the last 200 years that the “traditional” family has emerged. In regards to the love-based marriage, Stephanie Coontz writes, “It took more than 150 years to establish the love-based, male breadwinner marriage as the dominant model in North America and Western Europe. It took less than 25 years to dismantle it (247).”

What’s the point of all this talk about the nuclear family? The point is that it is not biblical to hold up the nuclear family as the goal of Christian relationships for youth and families. Diana Garland argues that nuclear family terms like parent, child, brother, and sister are used in Scripture but not to limit familial relations to the nuclear family. Instead, they are terms God’s people use to relate to others across social and cultural boundaries of family units. Naomi and Ruth are a great example of this use of the language. Jesus is another great example when he points to his family being a community of God’s people (Mark 3:33-35).

David Elkin’s work reveals that there has been a major shift in the structure of the family that corresponds to the shift from the modern period to the postmodern period. He suggests that the best way to describe the family unit in the postmodern context is “permeable.” This type of family structure is neither good nor bad—it is simply contextual.

Marjorie Thompson takes us one step further and suggests that we embrace all family structures in the life of the church. She argues that all families are called to learn the way of God from the church. She adds that it is the church’s responsibility to teach families how to practice the means of grace that are common to it (acceptance, encouragement, loving challenge, forgiveness, reconciliation, and hospitality) in Christian ways.

A transformational approach to youth ministry will engage all family structures as being a place where God can work and transform all members into Christ followers. In this approach we must not slip into the habit of offering one family structure as the biblical solution to family challenges.

By: Paul Sheneman

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